Hey guys ! How are you today ??? I’m feeling good honestly !
Today we’re gonna talk about the Baseball Man ! His name starts with a B so …. Perfect nickname right ?
B. is a 37 years old Korean man, divorced and single ? (from what he said, he was single “he broke up with his gf because she is going to live abroad …” By the way this woman is a foreigner).
We started to talk lightly … Having good conversations… through text messages or even phone calls. It was really fun and cool for both of us.
I told him that I would come to Korea and he was happy to meet his French friend in Korea.
The day has come and took the flight. I met him the next day of my arrival.
We had dinner and he had beer (I don’t drink alcohol)… Really nice talk, good vibe, complimenting me a lot …
Honestly I had a good time. We walked around, it was soooooo sooooo hot that night !!!! He asked me if I wanted to go to his place.
WARNING : DO NOT GO TO A PERSON’S HOUSE LIKE I DID !!! NEVER !!!! ALWAYS TRUST YOUR INSTINCT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NEVER ACCEPT A DRINK FROM SOMEONE YOU DON’T KNOW OR EVEN IF YOU KNOW HIM / HER ! ALWAYS HAVE AN EYE ON THE PERSON !!!!
I didn’t feel any bad things coming from him. We are both adults.
I came to his house, and we could tell that it was a man’s house ! hahahahahahaha. He proposed a glass of water, and he served himself a glass of wine. We were watching TV and things started … We started to kiss, I wanted to kiss him, I didn’t feel pressured by that … But things went sooooo quick.. I was on his bed ! I didn’t want to have intercourse with him … Basically with anyone in there. I’m not into friends with benefits or one night stands… Kisses are ok, hugs are ok (I’m human!)
I wasn’t comfortable. I hate doing something I didn’t plan …. I’m an INFJ and to enter my private circle you have to prove things to me…
I tried to make him realise that what he was doing wasn’t ok in a gentle way until I said STOP. Honestly if I didn’t have that rule : not having intercourse in Korea… I would’ve done things with him.
Anyway … He felt bad, we talked about it… And from nowhere he mentioned his “ex girlfriend” as his girlfriend…. I felt so bad for her … Because she’s still in Korea now.
Anyway. He asked me to stay with him the night because there were no metro at that time. I declined and said I would take a taxi. He took care of it… He called a cab (through KakaoTaxi I think), he came with me, kissed me in front of the cab saying that we’re gonna see each other for sure … But we never did !!!!
I came home and laughed sooo hard …
Baseball man ….
Few days later, I saw on his instagram, that he went to a baseball game and there was his girlfriend with him and other friends…Yeah ! No comments on that !
UPDATE : A year later, the guy contacted me on Kakaotalk asking if we can meet again for a lunch / dinner ! hahaha I said YES because I want to know how he will act this time ! hihi